If you’re off to university or have ventured off on your own for the first time, chances are, you have a roommate.
Lucky for you, I’ve been there, so here are my top tricks for dealing with roommates.
- Talk to them before you meet. That way you can figure out some things about them and they won’t be a total stranger.
- Respect their personal space. Ask if you’re borrowing things, or if it’s okay to invite over other people, etc. Especially in a small living space, both of you will probably need your own bubble to retreat to.
- Know who’s going to take care of what essential household stuff. Whether it’s cleaning or paying rent, be responsible for taking care of your share of household tasks.
- If there are any issues, make sure to try and talk to them first before involving anyone else. Communication is key to solving anything, and in a worst-cast scenario, you can move or transfer residences.
- Try to find someone who shares your interests. That way, you have enough common ground to get along most of the time. Keep in mind, living with friends can still end badly, and strangers can become your best friends.
- Get their number just in case. If there’s an emergency, you lock yourself out, or you need to tell them something important, you can always reach them.
- Know whose stuff is whose, and which items are communal. It also goes for areas of the place you’re living in. Trust me, people who hog the bathroom or steal your food are annoying, so it’s best to have some ground rules.
I hope some of this point help you guys with dealing with future roommates (or current ones)! Remember, so long as you have basic trust and respect for the person you’re living with, things should turn out well.
If you have any questions or other roommate advice, please leave them below!